DOES SELFLESS LOVE EXISTS ?
Nature has evolved based on needs. Sustenance of relationships is often dependent on what people have for each other. Species have survived because they took care of themselves. It is ingrained. Believe it or not, if you want someone to love you constantly, you have to keep offering what they want. You have to keep modifying according to their needs. I am not just talking about care, kinship and bond, I am talking about love. Especially, if their love is dependent on fulfillment of their own desires or needs, they will continue to love you as long as you have the capacity to fulfill them.
When you offer them what they do not want, they become disinterested in you. Imagine sitting on a pile of gold and offering it to a monkey, envision offering bundles of grass to lions, they are not interested. When they become uninterested in what you have, they grow out, they move on. Their interests vary based on their priorities. Imagine offering food to someone who just had a full meal; not interested. Does selfless love exist? Yes. It is a rarity though. Selfless care is more common. When you want someone to love you the way you love them, you are asking for a little too much. Because, for them to love you back the same way, they would have to be exactly like you, they would need to want what you want, they would need to lose their own identity.
Om Namah Shivay.
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