Guruji, do you really think that it is possible to stop hating someone?

Q: Guruji, do you really think that it is possible to stop hating someone?

Guruji : Don’t stop hating, keep hating them. Do what you find easiest my dear! If doing something is bothering you, and you are finding it so difficult to do, then why do it.

If you do something difficult and you still become miserable, what is the point? Do that which is easy and which makes you happy.

If hating someone everyday makes you comfortable, makes you happy, just do it! I am only concerned of your happiness. And if hating someone makes you happy and blissful, just do it without guilt.

This is not the case. When you hate somebody, they occupy your mind. They are occupying a place in your consciousness, and slowly you become like them. Why you should not hate somebody is because you don’t want to be like them. This is the reason.

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"If you didn't hear it with your own ears or see it with your own eyes, don't invent it with your small mind and share it with your big mouth."

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"It starts with a dream. Add faith, and it becomes a belief. Add action, and it becomes a part of life. Add perseverance, and it becomes a goal in sight. Add patience and time, and it ends with a dream come true."

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Little irritations help to bring the acceptance inside you. Irritation means non-acceptance. Non-acceptance means holding your fist closed tight. Acceptance is like opening your fist. Irritation is stiffness. Don't you feel stiffness when you get irritated? Acceptance is openness, and when your hand is open, the sky is the limit; everything is inside you. But when you are closed then there is nothing inside. So, letting go is important.

Om Namah Shivay