Shiva has no expectation but He does expect everything in all conditions whether its happiness, pain or poison.
Sometimes we get upset because we think and feel things are not going right. People are not fair with us. World is not fair with us. God is not fair with us! We get angry when someone doesn’t do things the way we like or when we planned something carefully and things didn’t go as we expected.
When one thing goes wrong we get annoyed at this point we start observing every little thing for error. We want everything to be perfect in our life and this is a major cause of our unhappiness.
If you want to be happy then start expecting things to go wrong.
Expect things to be different than we hoped or planned expect the unexpected to happen... Accept it. Expect your partner to be less than perfect. Expect things may go wrong during your vacation.
Expect things to go not according to plan. Expect people to be rude sometimes. Expect weather to be nasty. Expect that nothing last forever. You can’t change these inevitable facts they will happen, eventually. And if you expect it to happen you won’t get so upset.
Start your day thinking some things may not go as you planned today. Prepare yourself to enjoy every expected and unexpected situation.
Always be thankful for the things you have now. Treat yourself as the luckiest person in the world. There are people who don't have enough food, clothes and shelter. We should learn to be happy with what we get. It is said that life is a matter of choices. Being happy is a choice. Choosing to always be happy will make you happy! Happiness is a perfume that you pour on others and on yourself!
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