If someone is continuously speaking badly, then what should one do?

Q: If someone is continuously speaking badly, then what should one do?

Guruji : If someone is doing something continuously, then that is their nature. Can you say that every day the dog is barking? It is a dog only who can bark! You can’t expect a dog to say, 'Meow'. Same way, you should understand that this is their nature.

If they do it continuously then you should be more relaxed! If someone does it once in a while, then you should be concerned, ‘What has happened? Has this person eaten something wrong or what?' We can think about it.

When someone is doing it continuously, it brings freedom to you. That is how they are. Why do you even have to worry about it? Just move on.

At least the dog is in your house, and not in the neighbour's house! The dog in your home, you can at least feed him something and make him shut up. But if the neighbour's dog is crying all night and barking all day, you can’t do anything with that!

So you simply have to accept the situation as it is. Keep telling your mind this and keep moving. Buy nice ear plugs and put it in your ears, or think this dog is singing a lullaby and go to sleep.

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Wisdom is a quality of consciousness, a quality of life, and this gets transferred by good company.

The Presence of the Guru does not bring you any information, it shifts the quality of consciousness, and that brings the wisdom to your mind.

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Q: How do I know if I am doing the right thing or not? Sometimes I get very confused.

Guruji : When you are not doing the right thing, something pinches you, something irritates you; something inside tells you that you are not doing the right thing. This is how you know you are not doing the right thing.

When you are doing the right thing, sometimes doubts also come. So, if doubts come then you can think that it is the right thing. But if irritation comes then it is wrong.

Our doubt is always about something that is right. Also, when your prana is low then doubt comes. Raise your prana with more meditation. Then you will see that these doubts don’t rise up in the mind.

Om Namah Shivay