People are so selfish and there is no value for any relationship.

पेहले लोग भावुक होते थे , भावना में बह कर रिश्ते निभाते थे ! फिर लोग प्रैक्टिकल हुए , भावना का कोई स्थान नहीं रहा , रिश्तों से फायदा उठाने लगे ! अब लोग प्रोफेशनल हो गए हैं , जिनसे खुद का कोई फायदा हो सके , सिर्फ उन्ही से रिश्ते निभाते हैं ! कड़वा सच कलयुग का !

Selfishness is a big issue these days. People are so selfish and there is no value for any relationship. And if someone you have to deal with everyday is consistently self involved and self centred, then doesn't life get miserable? People are just concerned excessively or exclusively with them self, Having no regard for the needs or feelings of others. So if they can be uncaring and unresponsive, why should we suffer. Well, we can't change the behaviour of others, we can only change our reaction to their behaviour. Let's become practical too. Being emphatic and emotional is good but being too emotional and letting people take advantage of your feelings, hurting you again and again isn't good either. You should try to keep your emotions in check and should mellow them a bit. Step back from any such relationship and ask yourself why you should let them treat you in a mean way. If some one is disrespectful of your needs, then you must accept their disregard for you. Realise that it doesn't diminish you. Consider whether or not you should continue with such person. It's basically Give and Take. If someone doesn't give you back, know that now it's your responsibility to not give back more than you can. It's time to Become more centred on your needs, than theirs. Put yourself first, we need to take care of our needs first. It's ok to be little selfish nowadays in this weird world. Lest we become victims. Start giving yourself the attention that you deserve. Pamper yourself. Ignoring your needs to pour attention and energy into a self-absorbed person isn’t virtuous. It only sets you up for being emotionally drained and hurt. Stay true to yourself, Just focus on the person you are, loving and considerate. Maintain your dignity with all integrity and cut all links with them and end the relationship outright. Life is too short to be bogged down by selfish people and tied down in toxic relationships that suck the energy and happiness out of you! Love, Light & Peace ~ Om Namah Shivaya ~ Boom Shankar!!
Namaste Dear All !