Happiness and Unhappiness are like two sides of scale which brings balance in our life.

Happiness and Unhappiness are like two sides of scale which brings balance in our life. Yes they must be valued and analyzed. We can’t only have one side that will unbalance our life. These both sides of scale are actually in our mind. In order to deal with misery we must take control of our mind and analyze so we can bring balance in our life.

Typically what we call happiness and misery are relative experiences. We should value both experiences but don’t only seek for just happiness, you will be in misery. We must seek for something higher than usual.

Do not remorse because you do not have what others or what you always want. There is No one in this world who has so called “a perfect life” only packed with happiness.

Remember what you deserve, you always will get it. What you don’t deserve, you don’t. So there is no point for worrying unnecessarily, because it will bring misery and not joy.

Misery is in our mind not outside. “I am miserable because this man did not love me. I am suffering because I did not get this. I am in pain because this man did not appreciate and thank me.” All these thinking and understanding is in our mind. Let it go and be happy for others and join in their happiness, you will find bliss.