You have full control over what you choose to believe.

"The entire body of water the size of the Pacific Ocean can’t sink a ship unless it gets inside the ship. Similarly, all the negativity in the world can’t bring you down unless you allow it to get into your head" Yes, remember that you have full control over what you choose to believe. You can effectively defend yourself against all kinds of negativity by adopting simple, yet powerful, beliefs that support a positive outlook in the face of seemingly negative circumstances. "What other people say about me is their problem, not mine" Don’t take other people’s negativity personally. They behave like this to everyone. What they say and do is a projection of their own reality. Life isn’t perfect, but it sure is great. Our goal shouldn’t be to create a perfect life, but to live an imperfect life perfectly.‪ Every day is a gift. Never treat life casually. And don't expect life to be wonderful all the time, it is like wanting to swim in an ocean in which waves only rise up and never come crashing down. When you recognise that the rising and crashing waves are part of the exact same ocean, you are able to let go and be at peace with the reality of these ups and downs. It becomes clear that life’s ups require life’s downs. Lose the expectation, Enjoy the challenge of your achievements. See the value in your efforts and be patient with yourself. And realise that patience is not about waiting, it’s the ability to keep a good attitude while working hard on your dreams. Happiness starts with you, not with your relationships or not with your job. Regardless of the situation you face, your attitude is your choice. If you realised how powerful your thoughts were, you would try your best to never think another negative thought again. And yes, Surround yourself with people who lift you higher, those who see the great potential in you, even when you don’t see it in yourself.
Love, Peace & Blessings to All ~ Om Namo Bhagwate Rudraya Namah!!