How to deal with wishes?

How to deal with wishes?

Q: Guruji, How to deal with wishes? I wish to have a child, which after many tries is still unfulfilled.

Guruji: Whether a desire is fulfilled or not, just be happy. Don’t cling onto a desire. Because whenever a desire is fulfilled, it leaves you in the same place that you were before the desire arose. Not all desires can be fulfilled. Some get fulfilled, some don’t. But you should take one stance. You know what that stance is? Come what may, I’m going to be happy. Whether single or married, I’m going to be happy. There are more chances for you to be married, if you want to. And when you’re already married, then that’s fine. Still be happy. Whether you have a child or not, just be happy. The one decision that you need to make in life is 'I will not allow any situation to bog down my happiness'. Got it?

You have to take that decision, nobody else can take it for you.

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When you have come to this world, do something good that benefits everybody. Do not stay entangled in thinking only what you will get. There is nothing for you to take away from this world. There is nothing to take away from here. You have come to give. You have come here to do something beneficial for everybody. And you should all get together in doing service.

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The presence of the Master in one's life will bring fulfilment to all relationships. Every relationship will become complete with the presence of infinity of the Master, in your life.

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Q: How to deal with hard luck in sadhana and meeting you?

+Guruji: I am easily available. If you really sincerely want something, nature grants you.

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Q: Guruji, My boss is very adamant. We have had many conflicts. How do I handle him?

Guruji: Very easy. Say whatever you want to say the other way around. I want to tell you a small story. This person’s wife was very adamant. She would always do the opposite of what the husband said. The husband was desperate and went to a Swami for advice. The Swami whispered something in his ear. Three months later, the Swami was in the same city and saw that this person looked very happy. The husband thanked the Swamiji and said, “Your trick worked!”Swamiji had advised him to say the opposite of what he wanted! For example, if he wanted fried potatoes, he should tell his wife that he did not want fried potatoes. It’s all about how to handle the mind. Do not talk when communication breaks down. Tough people increase your own skills.

Om Namah Shivay